Sexual Reflexology is fantastic to use with a partner that appreciates being touched.
It can feel incredibly relaxing so it's the perfect tool to help someone unwind and get in the mood.
The best thing for sexual reflexology is to begin with a relaxing face reflexology session, and then move onto a basic ear reflexology type massage.
It is best if the person is lying or sitting down and can have their neck bent backwards slightly and head resting on a pillow/ cushion comfortably.
Stand or sit behind the person at the back of the head.
Face reflexology sessions take between ten and fifteen minutes,
but for the sake of a quicker and lighter touch session, we recommend doing it in five to six minutes.
For face reflexology see the diagram and key below for reflexology points on the face and what they refer to.
Because you are doing face reflexology for sexual enjoyment reasons it doesn't matter so much about what the reflexology points mean, just that you do each one for a little while.
Doing reflexology to each point, even just for a little bit of time, will activate the persons energy points,
and increase their blood circulation making them more sensitive and relaxed.
Following the face session, move onto ears.
Hold both ears, one in each hand, and gently rub - beginning at the bottom of the ear lobes.
Rub very softly using thumb and forefinger on both sides of the ear, in circular motions and slowly move all over the bottom of the ear lobe, lightly brushing the back of the neck every now and again.
Next, very softly and gently, move up the ear a little so the thumb is behind the ear and the forefinger is inside the groove of the ear and continue rubbing, moving slowly upwards, until the whole of the inside of the ear has been rubbed.
When reaching the top of the inside of the ear move onto the very edge flap.
Be careful of the inside of the ear flap/ curve as it can sometimes be uncomfortable to feel touched, and difficult to touch, and may take away from the easy sensual nature of the rub.
Rub gently from the top outside edge all the way down the outside edge to the bottom of the ear.
When reaching the bottom of the ear give the lobes a gentle and slow pull to really stretch it out.
From here you can continue softly and ticklishly rubbing the top of the neck under the hairline, but this is pretty much the complete and best sexual reflexology treatment.
The person receiving it will not only feel relaxed, but will hopefully be extremely excited as well!
If someone likes their feet being touched click here to learn more about foot techniques for sexual reflexology!!
We're passionate about sharing the ancient techniques of Reflexology with every person in the world who wants to better their health, quality of life and that of those around them.
Some people MUST AVOID and cannot receive reflexology or can only receive it from trained professionals.
Check Reflexology Caution! for a full list of who can't receive reflexology and make sure Reflexology is right for you and those you will practice on.